Remembering Sam Keen: A Catalyst of the Men’s Movement
Renowned author and philosopher Sam Keen, best known for his influential book “Fire in the Belly: On Being a Man,” passed away on March 19, 2023, at the age of 93 while on vacation in Oahu, Hawaii. His wife, Patricia de Jong, confirmed the news of his death.
Career Overview
With an educational background that included degrees from Harvard and Princeton, Keen initially ventured into academia. However, disillusioned with traditional education, he moved to California in the 1960s. In this new environment, he began leading self-help workshops and authored over a dozen books, fully immersing himself in the human potential movement of that era.
Influence of “Fire in the Belly”
Keen gained significant recognition following a notable PBS conversation with journalist Bill Moyers in 1991, coinciding with the release of “Fire in the Belly.” This book, which promoted a redefined understanding of masculinity, spent 29 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list.
In his dialogue with Moyers, Keen shared his experiences navigating societal expectations around masculinity, particularly those imposed by women. He reflected, “They were the audience before whom I dramatized my life, and their applause and their approval was crucial for my sense of manhood.”
The Men’s Movement of the 1990s
“Fire in the Belly” emerged alongside Robert Bly’s “Iron John” as foundational texts of the men’s movement, which sought to explore and revitalize masculine identity amid a changing societal landscape influenced by feminism. Keen argued for men to redefine their identities independent of female perceptions, stating, “Only men understand the secret fears that go with the territory of masculinity.”
This movement prompted men to engage in emotional expression, breaking down traditional barriers associated with masculinity. At retreats, participants engaged in cathartic activities like drumming and group discussions, which ignited both interest and skepticism within broader cultural circles.
Criticism and Legacy
While the men’s movement attracted mockery from various critics, Keen’s writings resonated with a substantial audience, comprising both men and women. He facilitated discussions on male identity dynamics, even leading seminars for political figures in the aftermath of significant events concerning gender dynamics.
Contrary to the extremities noted within some factions of the men’s movement, Keen maintained an open dialogue around feminism, recognizing its contributions to understanding patriarchal frameworks that affected all genders. He stated that women’s liberation served as “a model for the changes men are beginning to experience.”
Later Life and Interests
Keen later turned his attention to more physical pursuits, notably the flying trapeze, advocating for overcoming psychological fears by embracing both vulnerability and adventure. He wrote “Learning to Fly: Trapeze — Reflections on Fear, Trust, and the Joy of Letting Go,” revealing another facet of his exploration of human experience.
Known for his adventurous spirit, Keen embraced activities that challenged traditional notions of masculinity and encouraged personal growth. He set up a trapeze on his property in Sonoma County, where he championed these life lessons.
A Personal Reflection
Born Samuel McMurray Keen on November 23, 1931, in Scranton, Pennsylvania, he grew up in a family deeply rooted in community and education. He ultimately found his path by moving away from conventional careers, affecting countless lives through his writings and teachings.
Marrying three times throughout his life, Keen leaves behind his wife, Patricia de Jong, children from previous unions, grandchildren, and siblings who cherish their memories of him.